Self-esteem is an essential thing which every individual must possess. It helps you to respect yourself and also makes other people get the respect from you. It is a behavioural fact which is made by an individual as an attitude towards the self. Keeping this self-esteem high is what makes a person respect him and this encourages him to respect others. But if someone is having low self-esteem, he may suffer from many problems in life. Do you know there are some weird signs of low self-esteem many of you have but never acknowledged? So, we are going to talk about these weird signs which you should know. Have a look. (Also Read: How To Overcome Social Anxiety)
Signs Of Low Self-Esteem Which We All Generally Ignore:
- You apologise for your existence
- Being unsocial
- You pretend yourself when needed
- You buy things which you do not like much
- You believe everything is happening because of luck
You apologise for your existence:
Saying sorry every time when even it is not your fault is not a right idea. Try to understand the situation and realise, if your sorry is required. Do not hesitate to be sorry, if it’s your fault. However, you should never apologise for your existence.
Being social or unsocial is the choice of every individual. You might not like to mingle with people. But, it shows a sign that your self-esteem is low. Till the time you will not come out of your comfort zone, you will not make your esteem higher. That is why it is extremely important to mingle with people with the confidence to have a better esteem. If you want to know how to be social, read this.
You pretend yourself when needed:
Many people say that they behave differently with different people. Every group of people has different choices and that is why to mingle with them, people pretend. Just think, if you also have to do this, then where is your self-esteem? Don’t you think people should accept you for what you are in real life?
You buy things which you do not like much:
Are you trying to follow the fashion trend? That is why maybe you are buying the stuff which you actually do not like. You can not possess things for mere show-off. You should buy everything which you like from your heart. It is a sign of a low self-esteem.
You believe everything is happening because of luck:
It is not possible that your every achievement or failure is happening just because of the luck. You are the one who is responsible for this. Stop blaming your luck always. Bring your self-esteem out and show some maturity.(Also Read: What Are The Signs That Your Brain Is Ageing Faster Than You Are)
These are the crystal clear signs of low self-esteem which we all generally ignore. Hope you realised these behavioural habits are not normal and fine. Read this article in Hindi also.