Everyone wants to be successful in life and achieve the greatness in the life. It is not really that simple and easy. It is often said that the real success begins with you only. However, there are people who find it hard to move on the road to success due to their own self-sabotaging behaviour. The term self-sabotaging is self-explanatory, it means that someone who keeps destroying his or her own happiness. This kind of behaviour stops you from unlocking your full potential. So, if you find that you are the one stopping yourself from being successful, you must recognize the signs of it. (Also read: How to get over the feeling of jealousy)
You settle easily
This is a clear sign that you are not looking forward to moving further and live up to your potential. There is nothing wrong with contentment, but just stay in the comfort zone and never stepping out of it is self-sabotaging.
Focusing on the fear of failure
It is natural to feel scared while taking a risk in life. However, some people take shelter under thing fear to avoid moving forward in life. If you don’t take any chance in life, you will not reach anywhere. (Also read: What are the signs that negative people have too much control on your life)
The most prominent reason for the self-sabotaging behaviour is that the person doesn’t think of himself or herself worthy of getting the success in life. This thinking stops them from working towards the greater good in life.
Failing to take action
Even when the opportunity strikes, the person who is full of self-assurance goes after it. However, anyone with self-sabotaging tendency ends up in losing the opportunity as they are used to destroying the chances.
Refusing the help
Anyone who wants to be successful in life knows that it is about learning new things. A person who keeps self-sabotaging his life refuses to get help as needed.
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