When you step out of a relationship your heart is full of various emotions. You are emotionally scarred after a painful breakup. As a result, you constantly crave for your partner who has now turned in into an ex. After a breakup, most people advise you to ‘move on’ or simply forget about it. However, it not as easy as it sounds. A breakup leaves a person with tons of memories and as a result, the person feels too overwhelmed with feeling. It is important to remember that every person reacts to the breakup in a different way. So, if you find yourself thinking about your ex then you should know there are times when it is completely okay to miss your ex. (Also read: What are the signs that your love is just one-sided love)
When you have just broken up
People who have faced a breakup recently have all the right grieve and think about their ex. The time after the breakup is very emotional for any person. It is difficult to control your emotions right after the breakup.
Thinking about the good times
Every relation consists of tons of memories that are related to one person. Sometimes when you visit a special place or listen to a song, your mind automatically drift to the to memories of your ex and your find your thinking about them. (Also read: Why a relationship with too much love is actually harmful)
Loneliness is the worst enemy right after the breakup. You are used to investing all your time in one person that after a breakup you don’t know how to fill it up. When you are alone your mind automatically thinks of the person who is missing from your life.
Comparing your current partner
Every person is unique and so is their way of life. Your ex might have treated you like a princess but your current partner might not act in the same way. It is completely natural to feel this way.
Finding things attached to the person
Sometimes you find an old gift from your ex. This makes you think of him or her. Therefore, it is perfectly natural to think of them. (Also read: Is it really worth dating an insecure man)