Moving-in together with the person you love is a big decision of your life. After a great thought and analysing everything, you come to this conclusion. Moving-in together suggests that you both have planned a future together and you are comfortable with your partner. It is like making a big commitment in life. It is true that a live-in together relationship helps you to know your partner closely and you both eventually get a lot of time to spend together. But before making this big decision of life, you must try to figure out if your choice is right. There are certain signs which show that you both are not ready to move in together. (Also read: How does our brain respond when we are in love)
Which signs suggest that you are not ready to move-in with your partner?
You both don’t spend time together: If you both don’t spend enough time together then you both will not be used to of each other. In such a situation, moving in together is a big decision. Thus, before moving in together, you should go for a week’s vacation with your partner to know whether you are comfortable with them or not.
You don’t like his friends: Your home is a place where you would like to invite your friends and your closed ones. If you don’t like the friends of your partner or you are not comfortable with them, then you will find it difficult to adjust later on. Eventually, this live-in relationship will become problematic for you. (Also read: Why is love important for our health)
You are not financially ready: You need to be financially ready to make the decision of living-in together. Your expenses will definitely rise up. If you think you are not ready financially then you must not take this risk.
You both have different schedules: If you both have different working shifts then you will not be able to give time to each other. Thus, in this case, it is of no use to be in a live-in relationship. If you both have different time schedules, then you must think before moving in together.
You think it’s too early: If you are having an intuition that it is too early to move in together, then you should take some time and think about it. Take the decision wisely, after analysing everything properly. (Also read: What are the signs that your ex-boyfriend has moved on and how you must accept it)