Relationship Issues: No matter how strong your relationship is and how good your partner is. If you can not have a healthy relationship with their friends, it will eventually affect your relationship too. This brings tension and problems in your relationship. If you are into a committed relationship, you must consider that your partner can’t leave his friends. In fact, it not even wise to ask your partner to break his friendship. The way you love your friends so does your partner. However, there are some people or friends of your partner with whom you are uncomfortable. Here are some tips to deal with such situations. (Also read: Fake Friend: Sure-shot ways to spot a fake friend in life)
Relationship issues: What to do if you do not like the friends of your partner?
- Try to understand the situation
- Find out what is troubling you
- Talk openly
- Take initiative
Try to understand the situation
You have to understand that this relationship is important for both of you. Thus, instead of complaining about each other, support each other. If should not hate your partner’s friend. Try to understand your partner and his friends.
Find out what is troubling you
It is true that most of the people feel jealous of each other’s friends but you have to be true. It is absolutely okay if your partner shares things, secrets etc. with their friends. Thus, try to stay neutral and accept the condition.
If you are unable to accept the friends of your partner and facing trouble, you must talk to your partner. Be honest and talk openly. Discuss your problems with them, hopefully, you guys will find out the solution.
You both have to take initiative to make the relationship work successfully. If your partner gives 100% to the relationship, you should also try to give your best. Try to spend time with your partner’s friends as well and go out with them.
These are some of the ways to cope up with a sudden hatred for your partner’s friends. You can read this article in Hindi too.