Every couple has arguments, it is how you grow in a relationship. However, not every kind of arguments ends up in a reconciliation and emotional bonding. Sometimes, some arguments just show that your relationship has run its course and it is the time to break it off with your partner. People often tend to avoid the talk about the breakup as they find it hard to deal with the emotional issues, but sometimes it is a decision you must take. In simple words, it is important to know what are kinds of fights and arguments that indicate that your relationship is not working anymore. (Also read: What is the meaning of different colour of roses and their importance)
Personal attacks
When you are in a relationship you share your worst insecurities with your partner. However, when you two have a fight, your partner should never ever bring it in front of you. So, if your fights and arguments are turning into a personal attack towards your insecurity, it is never a good sign.
Bringing financial issues in a fight
It is not possible that both you and your partner will earn the same amount of money. However, it is not justified that your partner actually makes an issue of it in an argument. It shows that he or she doesn’t respect you.
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Verbal abuse
People often avoid talking about the issue of verbal abuse as they just want to portray a happy picture of their relationship. However, in a reality, the issue of verbal abuse is the dark side of many relationships. When your partner resorts to abusive approach it is a sign that you should break it off immediately.
Accusing
When a fight occurs it is never only one person’s fault entirely. If your partner fails to see his or her flaws and simply holds you accountable for everything. Then, it shows that your partner is not the right choice for you. In the long run, you two will not be able to manage the relationship.
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