Friendzone is the most dreaded zone for any young person. It simply means that the person you like or the person you have a crush on think of you as just friends. Being friendzone simply means that you are there for your crush, helping them in every possible way but they don’t reciprocate your feeling. Whatever efforts you make to turn the friendship in a romantic way fails as you become just a friend. It is not just limited to guys, girls equally get friend-zoned by their crush. Many people simply believe that if you are too nice, then you automatically get friend-zoned. However, this is not true, there are some mistakes that people make, which shows them the door of Friendzone. (Also read: What are the signs that your love is just one-sided love)
You don’t approach her or him in the right way
If you romantically inclined towards a person it is better to confront them about it. If you use the mask of friendship chances are that your crush will never understand your hints and will continue to treat you as a friend.
Being available all the time
Most people forget about the importance of keeping a healthy distance from your crush to gain their attention. When you are available all the time, you are indicating that you are longing for their company. As a result, your crush starts taking you for granted. (Also read: Why should you never date your bestfriend)
You don’t show jealousy
When you are talking to your crush, it is dishearting to hear about any other guy or girl. However, most people think that if they play it cool it will look better. This tactic almost always takes a wrong turn as your crush starts thinking that you are not into her in a romantic way.
Too many efforts
It is tricky to woo someone. The most common mistake people make is that they try too hard. If you are into someone you must approach them in a subtle way so that you don’t come out desperate. If you try too many it is a sure shot way to get rejected.
You appear underconfident as you are scared of rejection
The worst fear that pushes a person in Friendzone is the fear of rejection. However, always remember that it is better to know where you stand in someone’s life so that you know when to stop trying. Also, your crush might actually feel the same way. So, if you don’t approach how will you know? (Also read: Why is it so difficult to date a daddy’s princess)