You might agree with it or not, but when two people come in a relationship, they become dependent on many things on each other. They may not be doing it intentionally but togetherness makes them do so. Being dependent on your partner is not wrong but sometimes it makes people lose their own identity in the relationship. If this happening to you too and you realise your relation is increasing the co-dependency, then have a look at the following. Here we are going to talk about the tips which will help you to stop the dependency on your partner. Have a look. (Also Read: How To Be Just Friends When He Wants More)
Give yourself some alone time:
It is possible that you may be spending a lot of time with your partner which makes you stay dependent on him/her. So a little alone time will make you understand the fact that your physical and mental dependency is not right. In fact, you will get some zeal for being independent too.
Have faith and confidence in yourself:
You have to bring back your self-confidence and have to stay independent and mature. You may have lost your confidence and trust in yourself, that is why you are too dependent on your partner. No matter, what happened to you, the main things is, your confidence says everything, so try to be your own person. (Also Read: How To Kiss Your Partner For The First Time)
Take help from your friends:
You can not deny the fact that since when you have come into the relationship, you have minimised your contacts with your friends. So, it is natural that you are being mentally and physically dependent on your partner only. But, now it is the time to extend your boundaries and take help from your friends too. Do not just stuck into the relationship only.
Learn from others, look at the bigger picture:
It may make you feel a little weird, but, maybe your relationship is lacking in something which others have. So, there is nothing bad in learning from others. Every relationship is different. So, talk to them whom you admire for being in a healthy relationship. So, learning can help you to avoid being dependent.
Talk to your partner:
Have you ever thought that why have to be too dependent on your partner? Maybe, your partner does everything for you before you even speak about it. So, you need to talk to your partner. If he/she stop doing everything for you, your realisation of being independent will be elevated. So, talk to your partner in detail about it. (Also Read: How To Avoid Being Cheated On Again In The Relationship)