People think and believe that once you are in a long-term relationship you start to feel really comfortable with your partner. That means you feel free to share your true emotions and thoughts without the fear of judgement. After a significant amount has passed between two people all inhibition and pretentiousness are shed and there is a feeling of comfort in the relationship. However, this is not true in all the cases. Sometimes despite being in a long-term relationship, you feel uncomfortable with your partner. You might find it hard to accept but it is indeed true for few couples. So, watch out for its signs. (Also read: Break Up: Signs you should end your relationship even if you are in love)
Discomfort in the relationship
- You find it hard to share
- Constant judgement
- Lack of real talk
- He/she puts his/her needs first
- Deep down you are scared
You find it hard to share
Being in a relationship means that you are in safe space with your partner where you can share your thoughts. However, in your relationship, you find that you are unable to do so. This is due to the lack of comfort between the two of you.
Despite staying together for a long time period you think of the reaction of your partner before telling him anything. There is a fear of judgement in your mind. (Also read: If your partner does not talk to about these things, you should break up with them)
Lack of real talk
In a relationship, if you are not comfortable with your partner, then you avoid having a deep and meaningful discussion. You are constantly running away from the real issues in a relationship. All this happens if you are not comfortable with your partner.
He/she puts his/her needs first
When you are not comfortable in a relationship, then your partner seeks advantage of it. Maybe it is intentionally or unintentionally but you are left to compromise.
Deep down you are scared
The biggest reason for the discomfort in a relationship is the fear that it will end soon. So, if you keep thinking about the possible end of it then it is not a good sign. (Also read: What are the things one must do before a breakup)
So do you recognize these signs or not? Click the link to read this article in Hindi.