Mean relationships: There are certain relationships where the girlfriends are either scared of commitment or do not want to commit. It may be because she is not in love. She is just looking for a shoulder to have a headrest on. This is a sure sign that she is just using you emotionally. If she does not give you that value which a partner must get into a relationship, she is not genuinely with you. If you feel that your girlfriend only wants you when she needs an emotional support, it is clear that she is not in love with you. Let’s find out some more clear signs which show that she is just using you emotionally. (Also read: Normal Relationship: How should a normal relationship be like)
Mean girlfriend: Signs that your girlfriend is just using for her emotional support
- Never thinks of a future with you
- She does not talk openly
- She remembers no detail about you
- Unavailable when you need her
- No affection
Never thinks of a future with you
A girlfriend who is just using you emotionally will never plan any future with you. She will often escape getting into any future plan with you. She might show the sign of disagreement on the future plans.
She does not talk openly
All you both talk about is her day, her friends, her plans for the day etc. She never wants to get into any kind of deep conversation with you. As a result, you never know what’s happening in her life.
She remembers no detail about you
It’s always a sweet way of showing love, to remember little things about each other. No matter how deeply you remember every detail about her. If she is using you emotionally, she will not remember anything about you.
Unavailable when you need her
You might turn up to see her at 12 at night, but she is never available when you need her. She will not take your troubles seriously and will escape getting into your personal matters.
With love comes affection automatically. But there is no affection between the two of you. It is clear that she is just using you emotionally.
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These are some of the clear signs which show that she is just using you emotionally. So, be a little patient and analyse your relationship. You can read this article in Hindi as well.