Keeping secrets: Being true in the relationship helps to build a stronger bond. It not only helps to build trust but also leads to mutual honesty in the relationship. However, at times, it becomes extremely important to keep some secrets in your relationship. In order to prevent heartbreak and hurt, one must keep something hidden in the relationship. At times, our partner is unable to accept certain truths of our life. It hurts their sentiments as well as their ego. Thus, if you are in a relationship, you are allowed to keep these things secretive in the relationship. (Also read: Secret Relationship: Signs that he is keeping your relationship a secret)
Keeping secret: Which things one must keep a secret in the relationship?
- How your ex-partner was better
- A thing you want to change about your partner
- If you like any of their friends
- You still feel for your ex-partner
- Your expenses
How your ex-partner was better
It definitely hurts the ego of any man or woman when they come to know about their partner’s ex. If you tell your partner that your ex-partner was better than him/her, it is quite heartbreaking. You must never share your love-making scenes and past in extreme details.
A thing you want to change about your partner
You must never tell your partner what is that one thing you want to change about them. If the thing or the habit is such that they can’t do anything about it, then you must not tell them.
If you like any of their friends
Even if you find any of their friends as hot or handsome, you must never tell this to your partner. This causes jealousy in the relationship.
You still feel for your ex-partner
You might still carry some feelings for your partner, but you must try to hide them from your partner. You don’t have to openly tell your partner that you still think about your ex and hold some feelings for them.
One must keep their expenses and the details with themselves. Money sometimes creates a lot of trouble in the relationships. So, you don’t need to give every minutest detail about your expenses to your partner.
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These are some of the things which you must keep a secret in the relationship. You can read this article in Hindi as well.