Everyone wishes to be in a happy relationship. This is why before entering in a relationship people look for certain qualities in their prospective partner. However, it is important to remember that a relationship is not just about picking a partner with right qualities it is about accepting their flaws too. So, before you decide to get in a relationship with someone you must know how secure they feel in a relationship. An insecure partner can be harmful to the relationship, as then you will completely lose your freedom. Insecure people try really hard to control their partner or are constantly suspicious of their involvement with others. Nobody wants to live in a caged way. So, before getting involved it is important to question it that relationship worth it? (Also read: What are the sure signs of love at first sight)
What are the problems you will face when you date an insecure man?
Insecure men are really sensitive and caring. In the beginning of a relationship, everything appears peachy and nice. They even help you with any problem in your life. However, as the time passes they start acting in their insecure ways. They turn controlling and manipulative. They start throwing their insecurities at you and start looking for ways to blame you. (Also read: What are the signs that your love is just one-sided love)
How the relationship with an insecure man turn like?
The man who is insecure in a relationship will cross all limits to show his love towards you. The love they feel is so intense that they often forget to focus on the other person’s feeling. They constantly live with a fear of losing their partner. As a result, they try their best to spend all their time with their partner. However, for the partner, it becomes very controlling.
The feeling of jealousy
This is the biggest setback in case of dating an insecure man. He constantly demands to know about your whereabouts and questions about your friends of the opposite gender. He easily feels threatened by the presence of your male friends. Therefore, this behaviour turns into a problem for you.
Why do they feel insecure?
Sometimes this feeling of insecurity is linked to low self-esteem. It can also be a result of a bad experience in the past. (Also read: Why a relationship with too much love is actually harmful)