Being close to our partner is the best thing. One should be clear about the expectations of each other. Often when any one of the two partners is unable to satisfy the needs or expectations of the other, it leads to a quarrel. In order to avoid any kind of stress and fight in the relationship, one must talk to their partner openly. It is always better to have an open communication to have a healthy relationship. There are some big decisions in our life which we need to discuss with our partner. Our life goals, desires and aspirations must be clear to us and even to our partner so that there is no scope for any miscommunication. (Also read: What are the signs that your crush is actually interested in you)
Important conversations one must have with their partner?
Seriousness of relationship: Some people get into the relationship, just for having a tag. Very few people have a definite picture of the future together. If you are sure of your relationship you should make things clear to your partner. Make them feel secure and safe, instead of making them feel vulnerable.
Surety of the future: If you are in a relationship, you should be sure of your future together. It should not be a time pass relationship. If you really love each other, you both should be able to fight all the odds and stick to each other in present as well as in future. Cheating and uncertainty have no scope in a healthy relationship. (Also read: When is the right time to kiss your partner)
Planning the finances: Financial issues are strong enough to break the deepest of relationships. Thus, in order to avoid any conflicts, one must be clear about their finances and expenses. Your monthly expenses should not come as a surprise to your partner. Make a joint effort to manage the overall expenses and finances.
Talk about your expectations: We often complain to our partner about the lack of their efforts to live up to our expectations. If you really love your partner and want to stay with them, you should talk about what you expect. It is always good to be clear on what you want and what you except. Everyone takes time to know each other better, so drop the little hints to make them understand. In fact, you can also talk to them about your dream proposal and marriage.
Talk about your career: One should be clear about the career perspectives. Leaving a job or taking up a new job should not come as a shock to you. One must not sacrifice their career at any cost. So, talk about it and make it clear to your partner regarding your goals in life. (Also read: What are the various excuses people often make after cheating)