Trust is the building block of every relationship. But trusting someone again after getting hurt from that particular person can be really difficult. Being deceived strips away your self-confidence and leaves you in broken bits and parts. But try to live your life to the fullest. And relying on someone new again and giving yourself another chance shouldn’t be that tough for you. If there is trust between two people then every battle can be fought and if both the person are loyal.
Let’s find out how can we give a second chance to ourselves and trust someone deserving again:
Be optimistic about your future and shed away the past: You can never build a good future if you will keep sticking to your past. Though it’s difficult to forget your ex-lover but mind it, he/she has gone now. Your bright future must be waiting for you. Give yourself a second chance. Just be a little cautious and don’t trust anyone blindly.
What you believe, will happen: It’s all about the mind. What you think and believe in, will happen eventually. You might not be able to trust anyone because you think about it a lot. It is advisable to stop overthinking and believe in actions.
Build trust on your own self: You might have made a wrong choice once, but that does not mean you will always make a wrong one. Give yourself some time and believe in yourself. You are wise enough to make right choices and if not, you always learn a new lesson of life. Do not let the negativity influence you, just because of a past cheater.
Cheating is an individual choice: Stop blaming yourself. Come out of the victimised cage and see the world. If someone cheated on you, that was their choice. Trusting someone again should not be on the basis of your past. You can remain cautious but you can’t go crazy because of some bad past event. So give it a try, the world is full of good and trustworthy people.
Pamper yourself: No love is bigger than a self-love. So love yourself unconditionally! When you will regain your self-confidence and will build up that trust in you, then only you can love someone else. Pursue your hobbies, hang out with your friends, go for a vacation and break the barrier. Nurture yourself and forget the pain.
So, come out of the closet and live your life. The past is bygone and restoring it is of no use. Look forward to a better future. Learn to decorate your life with bright colours. Don’t forget life is an amalgamation of good and bad. Let good be worth counting!