If you have been cheated in a relationship, it is up to you if you want to give the relationship a second chance or not. If your partner is giving you the full assurance and they are repenting about their guilt, you can give them another chance. But make sure the same thing does not happen to you again and again. But you may think, how can anyone give assurance about they will not get cheated again? Have a look at the following and know about it. Here we are going to talk about how you can avoid being cheated again. (Also Read: How To Know Your Relationship Is Over)
Your gut feeling must be right:
If your gut feeling is saying your partners are not loyal to you and they may again cheat you, trust your gut. If there is a question of doubt, that does not appear without any reason. You have to investigate the fact as your partner have already cheated you before.
Do not forgive them so quickly:
If you do not forgive your partners quickly, they will understand that what they have done is wrong. But if you forgive them easily and start dating again, they will definitely take you for granted. So, be a little strict about it and make them realise about their guilt.
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Communicate and discuss:
If your partners have done this once, you should talk to them. You have to know the reasons and their side of the story too. Nobody has control of their heart and feelings. You too don’t have. So, a discussion can bring out the many perspectives and facts. This will help you to take any final decision. Moreover, the reasons for your partner’s side will make your alert for the next time and you can avoid getting cheated on, in the relationship.
Trust your partners do not doubt them always:
It is natural that you will doubt your partner after the cheating. But if you have decided already to give a second chance, then try to trust them a little bit more and make them feel better. But if you always doubt them, they will be irritated and they will feel like moving out of the relationship. So, save your relationship and make it better. (Also Read: What Are The Things All Couples Fight About)