Finding love, without looking for it: Love is one the greatest mystery in the people. Some people manage to find love at a very young age and then there are others who spend all their time looking for love. So, it comes to the question how to actually find love. The truth of the matter is, don’t seek love desperately, let the love find its way to you. If you are constantly looking for love, then you are looking for a way to fulfil your need for love. The truest love arrives when you least expect it. Instead of searching if you focus on being a better person then you can find love instead of looking for it. (Also read: What are the things we mistake for love, but aren’t real love)
Find love without looking for it
- Look for self-love first
- Don’t compare yourself
- Stop changing yourself for others
- Be your own person
Look for self-love first
It is easy to find someone who can be around you but when it comes to love, firstly you need to love yourself. Love is not a magic stick that can fix all your problems, that thing has to come from you. So, put all your energy into creating self-love.
Don’t compare yourself
There are moments in which you feel that all your friends are happily dating someone or are in a relationship. However, that doesn’t mean you will start comparing yourself to them and think that you must find love. If you give it time love will find you. (Also read: Major things to do in order to have a lucky love life)
Stop changing yourself for others
Many people make the mistake of pretending to be someone else just for the sake of love. When you are acting like someone else to get love, then it is not ‘love’. You are just betraying yourself as well as the other person.
Be your own person
Self-dependence is a must in life no matter if you are single or committed. You must not depend on others to help you through life. It will provide you will emotional stability and then you will not be depended on love. (Also read: Why dating too much can harm your love life)
So, you don’t have to seek love at any point. Click the link to read this article in Hindi.